You know when in the road and it’s extremely and impossibly unbearable from the traffic at a 7:00 am in the morning and all lanes are full of cars? You just try to seek a refuge out of this misery and whenever you see a moving lane you decide to move to that lane then “Booyah!!” your lane now has stopped and your ex-lane is now moving GREAT right? I’ve seen it many times and I’m sure you’ve either been through it or seen it for the matter.
I think by now you know that I usually look at things in a more metaphorically way than a literal way. The road? is our life track. How often do we move our tracks not because it is not what we want but because we can’t bear the obstacles that we are facing and then we still find obstacles in the new track. We fail to believe that in every road there is a road bump, a obstcale we most conquer and defeat we are stronger than we give credit to ourselves. You give yourself an 8 but really you score more than that, much more than that. Why change lanes when you know you are in the right track? If there is a reason beyond that then sure why not change it? But if it just because you feel you are unable to handle it then think not once, not twice, but thrice! Is it worth the change?
And what if those cars behind you forcefully makes you change lanes and bugs you with their headlights? Show that you are an undestructable human being, that if you fall you STAND! If they give you too much crap move away let them pass as if they never existed and come back to your fate and destiny.
Don’t live up to anyone’s standards but yourself. Don’t avoid obstacles but embrace them and learn. Patience is a virtue and what doesn’t break you makes you stronger.
Come to believe that you are not anyone but you are SOMEONE you are YOU who is strong, willing, faithful, and amazingly beautiful inside out.